Sunday 14 June 2015

By Bernadette Martin


There are circumstances in which we let ourselves down and that we stay to it for the longest time that we could remember. You would not thought that you almost have spent your entire life drowning yourself to the negativity and that it is time for us to ask for help from others. We find these people so that they could help inspire us and motivate us to change for you to become better.

Others become happy when they are able to help other people. They inspire these people by aiding them to bring back and be closer to God. They have long been in one of the Christian alcohol treatment centers and give their available time to help their fellow Christians.

Since you are so determined to try counseling, you must first review your qualities if you are fit to become one. You must be compassionate. You should able to understand with all your heart the situation that others is courageously facing everyday in their life, you must be able to encourage them that they can do the things that could lift them out from that misery.

You should be and always a good communicator. You should listen to them intently and ask decent questions to them. You should also use the right words when you ask questions to them so that they will not get hurt. Use also these words when you share your thoughts and advices so as not to insult them.

Being a good communicator is not enough if you are not a good problem solver. The main reason that you are counseling is to help them take the right way through your solutions. You should know how to weigh the benefits and the negative effects that could possibly happen with solutions. You know that it is hard because the life of someone else is at stake when this will not turn out good but you must be courageous enough to face these.

It is also important that you will be able to persuade your clients to the benefits of the solution that you have given them. Encourage them that this solution will be a good one to help them. Just be honest enough to tell them your evaluations and site the experiences of other people and some bible references that your client could ponder to to make good judgments for themselves.

You should be dedicated, passionate, and tough to have this kind of job. In your sessions, it will be hard for you to just give your opinion into the the situation and not take a research so you could understand better. Your first session are all sharing and the next ones are those in which you already have answers to the questions of your client, factual enough to help them.

But the most important thing is that you have a proper education in counseling so you will be a very influential counselor one day. With the right education, you will also bring yourself in front of your clients with confidence. You have helped other people with your desires and dream.

If you want to counsel people one day, all you must have are these qualities. You also have to equip yourself with the right knowledge. Go and find these qualities to yourself so you may become a good counselor one day.




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