Friday 12 June 2015

By Elaine Guthrie


It is human to feel disappointed, frustrated or angry. However constant display of these reactions can be damaging to ones welfare. This can result to depression if not ceased immediately. Disregarding it can even worsen its effect. Observing some steps on how to free myself from emotional pain is beneficial in overcoming such moods. Observing this outline can lead to inner peace if done frequently.

Regularly jot every emotion, thought and idea in a journal. Do this spontaneously. Meticulously review every entry to determine the cause of your mood swings. Use the gathered facts to acknowledge the real issue. It would be easier to move on once you have accepted it.

It is normal to grieve. It is part of the process. However do not prolong it. Find a confidant and pour those emotions. Compressing it will only produce negative reactions thus you should let it go. Sharing that burden somehow uplift that burden making it possible for you to arrive on a sound decision.

Store the memories away in the basement. Stop looking at old pictures, love letters and other souvenirs of the past until you have moved on. Reminiscing may only hinder the heart to forget. Rekindling every memory will only make you feel the lost thus engage in activities that you have not tried before. Use each moment to be productive. Entertain new possibilities that will improve your well-being. However try not to get into illicit acts. It will only produce regrets prolonging the healing process.

Be a blessing to others. Do community service or simply console a friend. Listen and learn from their struggles. The situation may not be the same but it helps one realize that there are more important things in life than grieving. It is also a good idea if you surround yourself with positive but realistic people. Find a support group that lets you see the lighter side of the situation without being disillusioned. It would be ideal to engage with folks who have survived the same experience or individuals who keeps you from crying over spilled milk.

Meditate when everything is at its worse. Approach a spiritual advisor or simply join a prayer group when seeking inner peace. Read biblical passages for wisdom or browse Cyberspace for inspirational stories. Write its lessons on index cards and bring it along with you all the time. Read it especially when you feel the emotion is taking over you. Sometimes seeking divine intervention is better than being surrounded with the wrong crowd.

Observe proper diet what you eat. Get some rest and frequently exercise. Staying fit allows you to have a sound mind. Do not use heartaches as an excuse to overeat or be idle. Neglecting your health will only make you feel and look bad. However do not overdo it. Remember too much of something is always bad for you.

Always stay positive. Look for lessons not grudges. Every situation happens for a reason. You just need to be assertive in picking up the rubbish of your mistakes. Stop denying you have one. Always remember that for every action there is reaction thus you do have to acknowledge your own faults. Learn to let go so you can forgive yourself and move on. Give it time to heal.




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