Friday 26 June 2015

By Francis Riggs


A lot of people suffer with trauma in their lives which creates a sense of heaviness in their lives. Learning how to free myself from emotional pain is what folks should be asking if they feel they have had a tough time in life and they want to get rid of the trauma that goes on a day to day basis.

When it comes to something like abuse, one tends to carry this around on the shoulders through one's life. It becomes a heavy burden and affects life in more ways than one. It not only causes emotions to flair, but you will struggle with relationships in terms of communication and intimacy. This is because you will be focused on your trauma.

It is even not easy to manage the physical aspect of the body because one will find that bottling up emotions will cause one to become anxious and this causes sleeping disorders, panic, stomach problems and a whole host of disorders that are unnecessary, but one just has to live with this if the person has decided not to open up and forgive.

You will need to deal with this before you go ahead and forgive the person, because this is easier said than done. Forgiving will set you free but you need to know how to go about it. You will not be able to forget, so you should be ready for the acceptance phase as well.

Of course, it is not easy to forgive because of all that you have been through, so one needs to be able to heal from this ordeal before you can move forward. Often going to a therapist and talking about it is the best way of dealing with the situation. You will find that it is a slow process, but you will be making baby steps and that is the right way forward.

It is common to suffer from shame in your life. There are many forms of this, whether it is minor or major. A lot of people are not able to let go of this because they think that they are not worthy or not worthy. It is not worth thinking in this way because you are only hurting yourself. One needs to think ahead and realize that you can get over this and heal.

Once you have healed from a situation where someone has done something terrible to you or you have caused shame upon yourself, it would be time to forgive. It is not an easy step to take so you must be ready for this. Once you do and you have gone through with the process, you will feel so much lighter and everything in your life will change for the better. This not only relates to you, but also to those around you.

If you don't forgive someone and hold these feelings in, you will begin to suffer with your relationships. Others will find it difficult to communicate with you because it seems that you are constantly engaged in something else. It is possible to enjoy life again once you taken the focus off from these issues. This will be a start to a brand new life.




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