Tuesday 5 January 2016

By Mark Hill


People from all walks of life tend to hold differing sentiments in matters regarding love and how its understood. There are people who believe that loving them means spending money on them just to make the happy while others go for sentimental values such as being kind, honest, caring and willing to spend quality time with them. True love books come in handy as it is somewhat like a guide that helps you understand the mysteries of this sensitive subject matter.

Love can never be taught; however, romance can be taught by providing tips on how to express it and basically spice things up. This means there is no expert in love as even the experts with PhDs on this subject face challenges just like anyone some being even tough than they can handle. It is for this reason that it is referred to as issues of the heart and not the brain.

Women from all walks of life tend to respond differently to this subject matter due to the different influences that have shaped their personalities; therefore, its difficult to be specific on what loving someone is. For example, there are women that are attracted to the physical appeal of men but others go for their values which is the reason that some of the most beautiful women are married by average-looking guys which to most people should not be the case.

As a partner, it is ones duty to study the other and get to know what they like and dislike as this is the only thing that gives them a chance to build a relationship by knowing if the two can get along. It is by this that people can learn to make each other happy by displaying the special attention that everyone craves for.

As much as money play a crucial role in displaying romance, its never all that matters as one can use the resources they have no matter how limited they are to please their lovers. Its all about creativity and making the extra effort in keeping that smile on the faces of the ones you cherish.

Most people believe that lovers should have a deep connection whereby the two are like one and they are there for each other and cannot stand to see each other suffer. This is the kind of security that most women seek as financial security may not be guaranteed; they always want to feel that they have someone who will always be there for them even in their worst conditions as time changes things and tomorrow cannot be seen.

People spend lifetime trying to find this so called magical experience that sweeps people of their feet which some people are lucky to find while other are not so lucky. Finding admirers is easy especially when you are financially secured but the problem is that these admirers only stick around for the benefits they get from being in your life and can disappear when the benefits are withdrawn.

There are numerous books in stores that have informative content on way to go about finding a lover and ways to try keeping them; however, they tend to set the bar to an unrealistic level which frustrates people trying to achieve them. Simpler things and values such as kindness and caring should be the facilitators to this subject matter.




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