Sunday 25 January 2015

By Janine Hughes





Many people confuse the act of self-love as a feeling. In this generation, there is the desire to be loved more than it was years ago. Everyone will agree that it is impossible to appreciate and want others if you had issues understanding yourself. Therefore, these are important steps to growing in self love as a person and understand your immediate environment.



For one to live a complete and fulfilling life love is necessary for a healthy life. Some aspects of our lives that is controlled by love include among others the image we have at work, our response to life challenges and whoever we pick as our lifetime mate. A healthy personal esteem would go a long way to guide all these aspects. The way, we respond to issues around us, points to the state of our inner man, unlike the outer man.



Many people have self-esteem issues, and they think doing beauty make over would solve it. However, much you put on a set of clothes the challenge would still be around. Some other people resort to reading inspirational books as others enter in relationships to make them feel good. At some point, there is personal gratification but it does not help in the long-term. It is because self-love is not just a state of feeling good but psychological appreciation by action for our physical, spiritual, and mental maturity.



It is, therefore, important to appreciate that as humans we are a combination of strengths and weaknesses. It is an acknowledge meant that would be the first step to personal appreciation and drive us to focusing on the important things of life. We must, therefore, start by commanding our environment by being mindful of everyone around us; it includes other people's thoughts and feelings in making certain decisions. It is not to mean that we are to be manipulated by others but to be tolerant.



Life has needs and desires. People, who are mature, know how to focus their self-confidence on the most significant and critical issues every time. It is the strong only who has what it takes to withstand their human desires and tackle the essential needs of life. At this stage, to make a significant step to a developed self-esteem ensure you learn the difference between wants, desires, and needs.



It is very easy to ignore basic stuff as hygiene, good nutrition, proper sleep, and intimacy. These are the primary building blocks of healthy social interactions. Anyone, who ignores good self-care, will end up having personal confidence issues in the long run.



Set boundaries that will influence love, work and other activities. It will help you not to harm and deplete the emotional and spiritual well-being. Bring the right people around you. People that will encourage you and share happy and sad moments with you. Remember there is no enough time on earth to spend with individuals that bring you down.



Lastly, when you do a mistake forgive yourself and learn to take responsibility. Human beings are not perfect therefore you cannot be right always. Make each day counts and walks up the ladder. Celebrating your victories will always encourage you to face tomorrow as you live on the face of the earth.









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