Sunday 21 December 2014

By Stacey Burt





Many people have been suffering from various illnesses because of one factor that is not even caused any damage or change to the body systems. Stress has the capacity to make you feel things and even your health is affected. And sometimes, it can be too powerful that it can also meddle with your relationships. And if you are married, having fights frequently because of it is never a good sign.



In order for you to not experience the various negative effects of stress and so that your relationship would not suffer, there are various things that you can do. But probably the most efficient and most practical one would be meditation for couples. This is one way for you to both evaluate and fix all the problems that you are going through as a couple.



Meditation has been existing for quite some time now. And it has proven itself in so many ways from improving some of the functions of the organs to ridding your brain of the turmoil that causes stress. It also has a lot of emotional benefits that it is usually recommended if you are feeling out of sorts.



Today, this is an activity that is not only for individual doing, it can also be a form of therapy for couples. More and more relationships have been healed and strengthened because people choose to do this activity together. If you are having marital problems and is undergoing counseling for it, you might want to try meditating together.



You have to remember that this is an activity which you both must participate on. If one is not really keen on doing it, you would just end up fighting again. And the therapy will have no effect in times like these. It is essential that both of you have the heart to do this.



Negative emotions will be reduced when you are in the state of meditation. And you tend to focus on some of the most vivid details. These two elements can be really essential when you are trying to make up and fix something. If your partner feels the same way, the easier the process becomes and the lesser and lesser chance you tend to fight as well.



Both of you need to find a place where you can meditate. As a prerequisite, this must be a space that is quite and free from distractions. If you opt to do this at home, you need to turn off all the devices including your phones. You can also turn on the answering machine. Power down the computers and try to turn off everything that might provide distractions to you while you are meditating.



According to experts, there is really no particular position to follow if you ever want to have a meditation session. But it would be better if you both have your back against each other and sit in a cross legged position while your hands are resting in your legs. The way for you to clear your thoughts would be to take deep breaths and let it clear your mind.



You might be able to think of a lot of things. But instead of ignoring them, it is important that you accept them as they come. This way, you will be able to let all the thoughts go easily.









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