Sunday 7 December 2014

By Claudine Hodges





Every individual have different attitudes and it is our duty to respect those differences. This might be a simple rule to follow, but most of us failed to do this. There are individuals that are too rude to their new acquaintances.



Being rude will not get you nowhere. It will ruin your life and leave it meaningless for the rest of your days. Bullying is always there and we cannot deny that fact. If you want to stop of this, then learning how to deal with bullying is a must. In this posting, we will supply you with some of the basic things that you can do to address the issue.



The first thing that you should do when you are bullied is to show no reaction. This might sound difficult, especially if you are already bombarded with a lot of verbal attacks. This might take some time to master, but it is a great weapon for you to learn. Bullies are constantly looking for attention and if they cannot get it from you, then they should probably look for someone else.



Even though they are throwing tons of things to you, just be calm and walk like you are not downgraded. In fact, you know what is the truth, so just stick to what you already know. If you act like a frail, there is a possibility that you will be bullied even more. That is the main reason, why should be very passive and walk like nothing happens.



If you are thinking that you are still not ready to face them, then avoiding them is what you can do. Just walk away from them and always keep the distance. If you can imagine they are coming your way, then go for a safer place where you think they cannot do anything to you. As much as possible, do not walk alone. If you do this you are vulnerable to their attacks.



Most of those rude guys do not have the brain to think properly. That is why, they just bully anyone to their hearts content. If they are trying to be smart in front of other people and you have an idea that what they are talking about is incorrect, then do not be afraid to speak out and correct them. For sure, they will feel humiliated.



There are times that you will be abused physically. This is very dangerous to you and may cause to death. To avoid this case to happen, enrolling in a martial arts school is a must. Self defense is what you can always do if you are dealing with physical attackers. Use the moves that you will learn from the training to protect you if you feel abused.



Bullying back is not always beneficial. You might feel that you are taking the revenge that you are longing for, but if you do that, you are just the same as some other bullies out there. You already know the feeling, so just prevent that to happen again to anyone.



Now, you already have an idea on what you need to do to deal with these attackers. If you think there are things that you can add on this list, then go ahead and use that as well.









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