Friday 5 December 2014

By Claudine Hodges





You know that life is bound to throw tough love at you. You know to, that things will not always be easy along the way. You just want to make sure that you will have the personality. The attitude, and the motivation to plow though all this and make it, scars and tear stains included.



There re a lot of things that you can do to be kinder to yourself, . If you have been way to harsh with yourself all these times, it may be just about the perfect time for you to change your stances. What you can promote is more positivism. In this case, allowing yourself the chance of growing in self love will definitely influence in all the right directions.



Be more observant of yourself too. Find out what are the things that make you who you are. You need to get a good idea of the kind of personality that you possess to ensure that you will be able to better deal with the many things that you are likely to have to tackle while living life to its fullest. Making decisions, right decisions, would be easier when you know exactly who you are and what you are.



Make it a point to eliminate self criticism to. There are a lot of people who tend to end up criticizing their own selves so much that they forgot how to actually appreciate themselves in the process. You need to remember that yes, you are flawed. However, you have strengths that counter these weaknesses too, maximize them as best as you can.



Make sure to acknowledge your effort. You have to do a lot of things for yourself, for your personal life and for your career. Recognize all the hard work that you have to put into things. Make sure to reward yourself every once in a while. You will be surprised at how much even ore productive you will become as a result. You deserve the R&R after all the hard work that you have done.



Develop a positive attitude and regard for the people around you. This does not only apply to those people whom you are close with or people you know. Do the same thing for strangers. Never judge. Remember, they are battling their own battles too and are wearing their own scars. The least that you can do is respect what it is that they have gone through and are still going through.



Learn to trust yourself. Not a lot of people can do this especially since they tend to have this belief that they might end up mes sign things up if they are to rely solely on their own when making decisions. Though it may be true that they are prone to making lapses in judgment, the am can be true with other people too. Trusting oneself more would definitely help boost one's confidence.



Never be afraid to make mistakes. There is no such thing as a perfect decision in life and you will find that many of the things that you will decide on, even the ones that you have taken the time to really ponder on might actually end up being not the right choice. This is why you should never prohibit yourself from making mistakes. They are learning experiences.









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