Wednesday 1 July 2015

By Edna Booker


If you were told to explain what love is and how you got into the one you have right now, you may find this a hard task. Though you may not have the right definition of true love and its aspects, you should not get into it blindly. You should evaluate its qualities since it does not discriminate on tribe and races. However, carrying out different and accurate true lover tests would highly be beneficial and protective.

If you fail to assess the nature of love you are nurturing with your partner right now, you may get into what you do not know. True love goes beyond sweet words to virtuous behaviors towards each other. If you dismiss that someone can pretend to love you when they do not, you may get into future problems that would be difficult to rectify then. Be watchful on the qualities of genuine love from your partner.

Though there are many dimensions of assessing true partners, you should assess most of them to get a rough idea of what love does your partner have. It is always important to know if your partner has future thoughts about the family you are starting. Where possible, it is good for partners to see beyond themselves and start living as though their children were there. This way, you would be sure you have a future to face and celebrate.

Another test you should carry out is the test of singularity. During this test, you try to find out if your partner can stick to you alone or if they would be having extra love affairs with other people besides you. In short, this test narrows down to infidelity and fidelity qualities between partners. Love can be sweet, but infidelity can break it down within a short time if you do not take care.

The partner you want to share life with must appreciate work and always look at what they get out it other than analyzing its nature first. Work is a major aspect of life that comes to fulfill your marriage needs and demands. If your partner were lazy and choosy towards work, chances of making smart progress in life together would be doomed. Lazy and choosy partners attract poverty that eventually disintegrates your marriage life.

You will experience various challenges in your marriage or relationship however much you try to avoid them. You should not look for ways of avoiding marriage problems or disagreements, but instead develop sound skills to solve your problems. If your partner is not apologetic of the wrongs they commit and always defends them, know you are headed to trouble if they do not change.

They say that a family that stays together share long lasting happiness together. If you are always in your business premise from early morning to midnight, you may cause serious cracks in your relationship. Find it good in your heart to keep off other affairs and create time for your partner and children if you want to have a stronger marriage life.

Last but not least, God should be center point of your relationship. Partners who do not reverence God may at times put you into unnecessary problems. In fact, your partner should have the willingness to extend this deity reverence to your children as well. This is the best way to start a happy and blessed marriage.




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