Friday, 1 August 2014

By Imelda Reid





The first few weeks after the birth of a baby can be very stressful. Nothing can prepare new parents for the intensity of emotions that they will experience. In addition to overwhelming love and devotion they will also experience frustration and exhaustion. It is very important for them to understand that all this is perfectly normal and just about everyone goes through it.



Post natal depression is a serious condition that affects many women. If a new mom finds herself experiencing symptoms of this condition they should meet with their doctor right away. In addition to suitable medication, getting the baby onto a Babywise schedule can also help. The mom will then have time to eat, sleep and take care of her family without feeling too stressed.



The On Becoming Babywise book is the latest phenomenon to hit the shelves. It takes a very practical approach to parenting and is not suitable for every family. The authors have done a nice job of combining their research and ideas into a very easy to read volume. Many parents say this is what they love about the plan. It is all set out for them and offers a wealth of advice and tips to try.



Like every program there are a few things to keep in mind before beginning the plan. One of the most crucial things to consider is that each baby is an individual. Some infants really respond well to the routine, however there are some that do not. If the baby is just not one who can be scheduled it will become apparent very quickly. No amount of effort can change the inborn personality of a child and the parents should be prepared to try another plan or program, or simply to develop their own.



Many people also find it quite helpful to go on line and read the comments left by other parents. It is wonderful to know that many other people struggle with sleep and feeding issues. Parents can log on and ask questions that relate to their own particular circumstances. They should be aware that not everyone will agree with the book and it is good to respect everyone's opinions.



The Babywise plan has been a great help to many working mothers. They have found that by starting out with a routine quite early it is much easier to get the sleep they so desperately need. They should be sure to let their day care or baby sitter know all about the schedules and provide written copies.



Many of the people who love the book and its approach are working moms. They may have as little as six weeks of maternity leave before they have to return to work. Having a good plan to help them get back on track is very comforting. Many moms are introduced to the book before their baby is even born and they are familiar with the strategies and know what to do.



At the end of the day the family must choose what works for them. Even if a close friend has had great success with the program does not mean it will work for everyone. Babies are just as much individuals as adults and should not be forced to stick to a rigid routine if it upsets them too much.









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