Monday 3 November 2014

By Etta Bowen





The relationship between kids and their moms and dads is valued in society and directly impacts the way a nation functions. Parents on a whole are interested in learning what their children think and how they perceive the world. The easiest way to do that is by talking with them. In addition, teaching life skills such as cooking, sewing, driving or even riding a bike is easier when speech is used. Learn tips for communicating if your child stutters.



Several famous people have successfully established careers in areas that relied on good communication. They did this even though they struggled with speech impediments in their childhood. A parent can help to prepare their child for a successful career in whatever they choose to do by teaching them to be confident.



Criticizing your child hardly ever produces the type of results that you are looking for. They are not likely to improve when you do that. Instead, they will perceive each new request to talk as another instance where they might fail you. There are several statements people will use when trying to help a stuttering young person, such as advising them to talk slowly. It is often better to lead by showing them what to do.



If your son or daughter tends to stutter, make sure you speak to them at a pace that is unhurried. This does not mean you should speak really slowly, as though you think they cannot understand what you are saying. Just speak at a moderate rate. People who naturally speak quickly may find it difficult to adjust to this at first but with time you will find a perfect tempo for your youngster.



For quite a few years, people who wanted to appear skilled at speeches would rush from one idea to another. Pauses and interruptions were seen as something negative. However, it has now been established that these are important parts of a conversation and should not be overlooked.



Pausing allows you and your kid to think. It also gives you the space necessary to just breathe. Getting the right amount of oxygen into your body helps to relieve anxiety and can make you more attentive to what is actually happening during communication. Rushing also blocks the other person from taking over. By pausing, you give your youngster room to contribute their ideas.



Silence is the first step in listening. This is an important skill and it enhances all conversations, not just those that you have with your children. Practice waiting a few seconds after your children have spoken before you reply. Just a minute or two communicates to them that what they have said is important and you value it enough to give careful thought to it.



Ask your youngster less questions. Most kids speak more freely when they are sharing their own ideas. They restrict themselves when they answer questions, in the attempt to make sure they stick to what the other person has asked. You should always try to give your children opportunities to speak freely and share what is on their minds.









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