Sunday, 25 January 2015

By Janine Hughes





All of us have some weakness deep inside us. We get frustrated, afraid, and worry of things we cannot handle and have complete control. When confronted with unimaginable problems be it involved life searching, losing someone, reaching a dream, or absence of money we usually tend to fight them. This is a natural response that is to survive at all cost.



Our minds are powerful machines. It works like a computer but when troubles come unexpected or we made the wrong choice, regretting is the usual thing we do. Diverting your attention is the key. Some people have the skill to face their daily dread and use it in their own advantage. It is amazing to see people grow up and become wise.



Emotions are difficult to control whenever the source of the distraction is about the things or people near to you. Consider emotions as traitors. Never make decisions when emotionally stable because you will likely make mistakes and end up in deep regrets. That is why every move has its own consequence. When that comes, be sure you're ready, if not then more trouble occurs.



Courage occurs because of our fears. When we start fighting them off, the result is unstoppable courage. Having a partner or someone who hang on to is good. Sharing of fears and sadness will make you feel you are not alone. Better write down the fears you have and write the solutions. Be sure that your solutions are doable.



Speaking of doubts, you need to understand that this is a step by step process. There is no easy way or a shortcut unless you are very determined. Like we know that everything is in our minds. If you have that control, you can be anything you want. Most people believe that in all you do, decide with yourself and never do it for others because they say so.



The painful truth about regret is that time continuous and mistakes will be left engraved in hard stone and you will think of them as your lesson. People we usually look up to are those men and women who overcome their greatest fears and they look beyond the imperfections. It is very difficult to be grateful when everything seems so wrong.



We must solve our own trouble. You can't blame other people due to your own wrong doings. People might have pushed you to do bad things but decision is still yours to make. The ball is right in your hands. You let it slipped and your life is over. People will do everything to break you and hurt you. Your self is your only friend.



Most go crazy, others go a little crazy. Psychiatrists and psychologists are there to help for a fee. Undergoing a medication and counseling will take much time and willingness to cooperate. It needs a good budget for professional fee but at least something good is about to come once the program is over.



Believe in him and everything will be alright. Sometimes, things happen unexpectedly. Have will power to go on and be free.









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Friday, 23 January 2015

By Ben Willis





Karatbars International is one of those companies that you have the potential to make a whole lot of money with just a computer and an internet connection. Lets first start off with why you should be buying gold. Gold has been the standard for currency for almost three thousand years now. So it is not going anywhere. Our dollar bills are losing their value, whereas gold is only going up in value. It would be a good idea to trade some of your money, which is losing it's value, for some gold, which is rising in value. Doesn't take a genius to figure that out, does it?



By chance, maybe you have come across a company by the name of Karatbars International? Karatbars International, operating out of Stuttgart, Germany, is making financial history. They are offering a great way to buy and sell gold. There are the first company to allow you to make small purchases of gold. By offering a sale of one gram of gold, this gives everybody the opportunity to own some gold!







So why don't you trade out some of that declining money for some gold? Some people are very hesitant because they believe they are going to get ripped off or scammed. Well, it is always a good idea to be cautious when dealing with your money! So I don't blame someone for being cautious in today's day and age.



Harald Seiz has been in the financial industry since the early 80's and has been surprisingly successful. In 2008, He decided to get into the metal business and this is where Karatbars International got created. A very smart man! People would be intelligent to follow his lead!



We are proud of the independence Karatbars offers the consumer to own, manage and control their personal Karatbars purchases. Our goal is to provide the very best in customer service for our clients and provide a opportunity for everyone worldwide to own gold at an affordable price point. This way, everybody can be responsible for their wealth and growing it! What a concept!



In conclusion, there are a ton of ways to make money in Karatbars. First you become an affiliate member, which is very easy. Sign your friends and family up for free! And whenever you, or anybody in your circle of influence decides to buy some gold you will make a small percentage of what they purchase! It is such an easy concept I do not know why people are waiting around? Get some more information off of the video I have and don't be afraid to e-mail Tim Cronin at AllInOnGold.com.



Don't take my word for it though, check out the video above. They have a ton more great information on Karatbars and how you can get started today and start making some serious money very soon! Why wait around for someone else to get a head start on you!









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By Karyn Shields





If you become a codependent, the one who will suffer is not only you but your partner as well. Being a codependent just means that you are giving something in the relationship just so you can get something out of it. If you go on with that kind of codependency mindset in this relationship, sooner or later, this relationship will go downhill.



To people who do not want to continue causing grief to their partners, then they should try to avoid becoming codependents at all cost. There should be some great tips that you can consider when you do not want things to go from worse to worst. Here are various tips you can use when you want to be in a healthy relationship.



First, you better get yourself proper counseling. This is so that you can become healthy. You will be unable to indulge in a healthy relationship if you are unwell personally. Thus, you better aim to become healthy before you aim to improve your relationship. The latter will actually improve once you improve yourself.



Do not try to quantify the love you have provided your partner. If you can, you should give everything you have to your partner without expecting to get anything in return. Of course, you should not neglect the relationships you have with other people. That is the healthy way for you to be in a relationship with another.



You got to address the cause of your pain. In every situation that you feel hurt or you get angry, there is always a cause for it. You should be willing to look for that cause behind the behavior that hurts you. You should then be willing to address that cause. Otherwise, you will not find a solution to your problem.



Personal boundaries are important even when you are already in an intimate relationship with another person. The personal boundaries do not only apply to you but to your partner as well. You have to talk about your personal boundaries together with your partner. Respect your partner's personal boundaries and hold on to yours.



You might get in a heated argument with your partner. In such situations, no matter how angry you are, you better not insult your partner. Do not call them any names. Do not label them. No matter how much anger you feel, you better phrase the arguments you make in a way that will not make them feel insulted.



In the case when it is your partner who insults you, you should not let it get to you. Instead of thinking about the insults thrown your way, you should make sure to think about the reason why those words were said in the first place. There might be something wrong and you can only resolve it when you think that way.



Conflicts are inevitable when you are with a partner. It does not matter how long you two have been together or how comfortable you are with each other, there will always be a reason for a fight. If you ever get into a fight, the two of you should decide on what conflict resolution method you will use to make up.









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By Janine Hughes





There is nothing that erodes your self esteem than when you are abused by someone. This goes against your rights as a human and may make you hate the precious life that you have. The worst thing about abuses is that they affect your emotions and create a sense of less importance in your life. However, you need to know that living with the guilt of abuse may not the solution to this problem. You need to embrace the aspect of reading the best books about overcoming abuse.



Many people develop thoughts of mistreatment and exploitation when they are young especially when something weird happened to them. Somehow, they are unable to overcome what they went through and instead develop feelings of hopelessness. Some of the instances that may lead to such feelings include cases of rape, abortion, losing job and parental hatred among others. You need to read these materials to overcome this.



Confidence and believe in your abilities are essential virtues that you need to have in order to be successful. When you read these reading materials, you are able to rise above the challenge of low self esteem. Also, you develop the self trust and love for your life which had disappeared due to the mistreatment.



The future is never a definition of the past. When you read and understand these reading materials, they will help you realize that you need to shed your past in order to forge ahead. They help you know that your future is not a continuation of your past, so whatever happened to you in the past should not influence how you build your life. You should forget about the mistreatment that you passed through so that you can build a positive future.



Emotional abusers have a way of making a person hate themselves and hate their lives. This kind of hatred can usually lead to things such as suicidal instincts which are not good. People who have experienced these kinds of abuses must learn to overcome their anguish. The best way for those who do not feel like sharing would be to read such materials.



People who are currently in abusive relationships would not hesitate to reading these materials since they help them concentrate on things they feel are good with them. You are also able to survive the abusive relationship by developing the element of forgiveness. You would always be ready to forgive your friend who abuses you often and this may help them change their mistreatment to you.



It is true that you would always have the feelings of vengeance towards the people who abused you. While this may be the only option that you have, these materials may help you see other many options that help you control your emotions. Eventually, you could not do crazy things to the people who abused you, but rather forgive them and move on with life in a more positive dimension.



Finally, you could also know that the last verdict on how long you could live in this remorseful state rests in your hands. Many people do believe that it is the abusive situations that they went through that hold their future. Contrary to this, these reading materials would help you realize the power in your mind to make progressive decision.









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By Janine Hughes





It is important for parents to be free and discuss issues with their children. This should be the case when it comes to sexual matters. This is because your son or daughter will come to know about sex anyway. He will want to know more on the topic. You should be prepared for this so that you are able to answer any question they ask you. Search the internet or discuss with a friend on how to talk to teens about sex.



As a responsible parent you need to take this issue seriously. Find an appropriate time and call your child for a discussion. At the age of 14, it is only right for the child to know the truth when it comes to sex.



There is an age whereby children begin to address these issues. For girls, it is when they have reached puberty and they are menstruating. The boys start being curious at the same age because they are seeing the girls undergo the physical changes.



When your child is already seeing someone, it is not the right time to raise the topic. He must have been told earlier before even starting the relationship. When this child grows up, he will appreciate an always remember the things that you taught them. The attitude and tone of your voice should not be harsh. The aim of the discussion is to impart knowledge and not to cause fear in the child.



Be cautious of how you handle the matter. This is because if you reveal so much about sexuality, the children may be left worried. The reason is because you are introducing to them a whole new concept. Therefore, teach them bit by bit so that they have time to digest the information.



The other thing that will give the child knowledge is buying him relevant books. You should give him the books or articles after enlightening him concerning the issue. You should be the one to find out how they are fairing on with the reading. Ask them the new things they are learning. You must make sure that they understand the concept in the right way.



You need to address the topic first with your spouse. Listen to each other and come up with a sober plan on how you can achieve the desired results. Then, you can decide if either of you are going to talk to the kid or; it is one of you who is best suited to do so. This will enhance family unity as well. You should not do things on your own without informing your spouse.



The other thing to watch is the kind of values that the internet or television is teaching your children. Find out the movies and songs the child is listening to. This is because the teenage period is a time that the child will become curious about everything. The child should not be exposed to pornography films. This may create an addiction that as a parent you do not wish for your child. As a consequence, he will become immoral at such an early age and lose respect for the opposite sex.









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By Janine Hughes





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Thursday, 22 January 2015

By Janine Hughes





There are many concepts that can be understood worldwide but when it comes to love it is a whole different story. Once in a while a relationship must experience some form of insecurities. It is when it becomes too much that it is considered that that relationship might be on the ropes. This insecurities result into unnecessary anxiety. Provided that one steers themselves well when dealing with insecurities in a relationship, your marriage or engagement might just endure the storm and remain intact.



First the notion that the whole world revolves around your doorstep is one of the causes of insecurities. Self-centered behaviors result into trivial misunderstandings resulting into serious problems. When your partners refuse to eat, there are those who readily assume it might be an indirect criticism of their cooking probably.



At times one should take time to reflect on exactly what is bringing about such thoughts. As long as your spouse has not displayed any indication of infidelity, engaging in such thinking is unproductive. Sometimes it might be your frustration or anger that brings about such feelings.



On suspecting something hidden or sinister in their tone or posture, you do not have to take a confrontational approach. This only drives the individual further away as they automatically shift into defensive gear too. Exercising restraint and patience is usually the most advisable option.



There are those who spent the whole day trying to figure out exactly what their partner has on their mind. Burdening themselves with such thoughts only weighs their brain with unnecessary anxiety. This is followed by constant psychoanalysis that only worsens the situation. Every action or statement made by one partner shall be interpreted to mean something else. Everyone requires having their own privacy and space at times. Constantly inquiring on the exploits, unspoken thoughts or intentions of another can breed resentment.



As for those who are overwhelmed by the fears of their partners abandoning them, they should not imagine worst case scenarios. The end of one relationship does not mean that the world will come caving in. Whatever one had with their partner ends and they are at liberty to find another and begin another.



Fear can arise out of one scared of undergoing rejection on the end of their relationship. Having this feelings are usually natural for any person. However thinking the worst of your situation does not make the situation any better and puts you in an unnecessary yoke. At times the main cause of the contention might be a really bad mood. There are several causes that might bring about a dampening in your moods.



The purpose of a relationship is to bring joy and fulfill the person. After loving and trusting your partner, concentrate on the good and not on evil thoughts based on trivialities. That way the relationship can flourish eventually. Any relationship has ups and downs, therefore, the ideal thing to do everything possible to ensure things work out.









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